Therapists for Trauma: How to Find the Right Therapist for Your Needs

When faced with traumatic events in our lives, seeking support from a therapist can be a crucial step towards healing. However, finding a therapist who is well-suited to your needs can be challenging and overwhelming. The process of searching through directories, seeking recommendations, and researching various therapy modalities can be draining before you even reach out to a therapist. In a bustling city like New York City, the sheer number of trauma therapists available can further complicate the search. 

Despite these initial obstacles, it is important to find a therapist with whom you can connect and will be a good fit for you. Here are some helpful tips to guide you in finding the best therapist for your trauma healing journey.

Consider Their Training

An experienced trauma therapist should have completed specialized training in some sort of trauma therapy and possess significant experience in treating individuals who have been traumatized. Pay attention to any specific training they have received, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) or Prolonged Exposure Therapy.

You also should ensure that the therapist is licensed and meets the qualifications required to practice in your state. If you’re looking for a specific sort of training or modality for your therapist to be trained in, sometimes different modalities will have useful directories to search (EMDRIA directory for EMDR, Somatic Experiencing International’s Directory for Somatic Experiencing). 

Explore Their Website

Once you’ve found a therapist you might be interested in working with, take the time to explore the therapist's website. This will provide valuable insight into the type of treatment they offer and help you gauge whether their therapeutic approach aligns with your needs.

Take note of their areas of expertise, as they may specialize in treating certain types of trauma, such as sexual trauma, developmental trauma, or family of origin issues. Trauma treatment is a very broad field so you want to make sure that they not only have experience with treating the type of trauma you experienced, but also that the way that they approach therapy as a whole seems in line with what you’re looking for.

Most therapists’ websites will also have important logistics information for you - such as whether the therapist is in network or what kind of support they provide with billing (i.e. providing superbills). 

Schedule a Consultation

Booking a consultation is an opportunity to get to know the therapist and assess whether you feel comfortable working with them. During the consultation, inquire about the therapist's experience in treating trauma and ask about their therapeutic approach. This meeting allows you to evaluate whether you can establish a strong rapport and connection with the therapist, which is crucial for successful therapy. When speaking with the therapist, do you feel at ease? Do you feel like this person will be able to understand you?

While factors such as credentials and treatment modalities are important, it is ultimately the sense of connection and trust that matters most. Healing from traumatic experiences can be a challenging and painful process, so it is vital to have a therapist who will support you throughout your journey.



Finding the right therapist for trauma healing can initially seem daunting, but with patience and persistence, you can discover a therapist who understands your unique needs and provides the necessary support. By considering their training, exploring their website, and scheduling a consultation, you can increase the likelihood of finding a therapist with whom you can establish a strong therapeutic alliance. Remember, the journey towards healing and recovery is unique for each individual, and finding the right therapist is an essential first step on this path.



Two women looking at a computer together

If you are searching for a trauma therapist or seeking EMDR in New York City, Madison Square Psychotherapy is happy to offer free consultations. We can discuss your specific needs and determine if we would be a good fit for your therapeutic journey.

Kristin Anderson

Kristin Anderson, LCSW is a Licensed Psychotherapist and Founder of Madison Square Psychotherapy. Kristin helps clients learn how to heal from the past wounds of trauma and free themselves of depression, anxiety, and resentment so that they can live more fulfilling and prosperous lives.

Previous
Previous

Rewiring the Mind: The Science Behind Cognitive Therapy for Depression

Next
Next

Cultivating Resilience: Building Strength in the Face of Trauma