Akilia Fadhel
LMSW
Specialties: Anxiety & High-Achievers, Trauma, EMDR, BIPOC Mental Health, Dating & Relationships
READ HER BIO →Trauma doesn’t have to be a life sentence. With EMDR therapy in NYC, this evidenced-based treatment can help you find relief from the symptoms of trauma and give you the tools you need to move forward.
Trauma can continue affecting us long after the actual experience has ended. Even when you know that you’re safe, your mind and body could still be acting as though danger is present.
If you’ve experienced trauma, you might find that painful memories surface when you least expect them. Maybe you avoid certain places, topics, or even people because they bring up strong emotions. Or maybe you feel constantly on edge, experience panic attacks, have nightmares or intrusive thoughts, or notice an emotional numbness that you can’t seem to shake. And even though you might understand on a cognitive level what’s happened, you may still feel stuck in certain patterns that are hard to change.
During therapy sessions, an EMDR practitioner uses bilateral stimulation (also known as dual awareness stimuli), such as side-to-side eye movements, tapping, or alternating sounds, to engage both sides of the body. While this is happening, you’ll pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, memories, or physical sensations connected with the experience you’re working through.
Throughout EMDR trauma therapy, you remain awake, aware, and in control the entire time. This means that you can pause the session, ask questions, or slow down at any time. In EMDR, the pace is designed to suit you and what you’re ready for.
While the research shows how effective EMDR is in relieving trauma symptoms, the mechanisms underlying it are still not fully understood. It’s believed that EMDR therapy works by helping to create emotional distance from your distressing experiences through desensitization. So, you can still remember the traumatic event, but the memory might no longer bring up the same level of fear, shame, or helplessness that you may have previously experienced.
Our EMDR Midtown Manhattan therapists won’t ask you to immediately revisit painful experiences. Early EMDR sessions focus on learning about you, your history, and your goals. After this, we’ll help you strengthen coping strategies, in a phase of treatment called resourcing, so you feel prepared before deeper processing begins.
Your treatment plan will be shaped around your specific needs and goals, and the details you gave during your assessment. Your therapist may use EMDR on its own or integrate it with other types of therapy like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, mindfulness practices, and other trauma-informed approaches to support you in reaching your goals. During the entire process, you remain in control and can set the pace, pause, or ask to approach something differently at any time.
You’ll start with a complimentary consultation where you can ask questions, let us know a little about what brings you to us, and what you hope will change through therapy. You can also tell your therapist whether you would prefer to see have virtual or an in-person therapy in NYC and discuss availability and insurance.
We suggest you review the bios of each of our therapists to see who most resonates with you. All of our therapists are EMDRIA trained so you can be confident to focus on finding the therapist that feels like the best style for you.
Unsure about which therapist might be the best fit for you? You can take our questionnaire to get matched with an EMDR therapist. Our Clinical Director will hand match you with the therapist whose experience and therapeutic style align with your needs within 24 hours.
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