Madeleine Phelan
LMSW
Specialties: Postpartum Mental Health, Depression, BIPOC Mental Health, Women's Issues, EMDR
READ HER BIO →Are you craving genuine and lasting love in your life? Tired of the dating game, swiping through endless profiles, and going on one uninspiring date after another? You’re not alone. Despite your best efforts, it feels like finding “the one” is a distant dream. Your friends have succeeded, but you feel stuck and disconnected from their advice to “put yourself out there” or that “you’ll find it when you stop looking”.
Maybe you've started seeing someone, and the uncertainty kicks in. Do they really like you? Are you the right match? You're playing detective, searching for signs that you’re on the same page. But there's this fear that maybe they're not the one, and worse, maybe there won't be anyone else. Loneliness and abandonment become constant worries, holding you back from the relationship you want.
Enter dating therapy – your secret weapon in navigating the tricky world of relationships.
At Madison Square Psychotherapy, through years of working with clients who have experienced a variety of different struggles in the realm of dating and romantic relationships, we’ve found the keys to navigating your love life with confidence and ease. In the early stages of dating, this involves managing expectations, being authentic, and setting boundaries. For single clients, we focus on creating a sense of wholeness independent of a romantic relationship. In the aftermath of a breakup, grief work helps uncover and cope with emotions, providing closure and building confidence for future relationships. It's all about unraveling the complexities of dating and relationships, empowering you to find the love you're looking for. Give it a shot – your path to lasting love might just be a therapy session away.
We can only meet others as deeply as we’ve met ourselves. Our goal is for you to emerge with a new sense of love and compassion for yourself – that you can then go share with a partner from a place of wholeness and abundance, rather than scarcity and lack.
You’ll work with your therapist to identify and accept what your deepest needs and values are when it comes to dating. With this awareness, you will learn to identify more compatible partners and have the difficult conversations needed to ensure your needs are being met.
When starting dating and relationship therapy, we’ll focus on helping you to feel safe and secure in yourself, knowing that whatever happens, you will be okay. You’ll develop tools and strategies needed to calm your nervous system, build your confidence, and feel grounded in who you are – with and without a partner.
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