Top Rated NYC Dating & Relationships Therapists
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DATING & RELATIONSHIP THERAPY 101
Are you craving genuine and lasting love in your life? Tired of the dating game, swiping through endless profiles, and going on one uninspiring date after another? You’re not alone. Despite your best efforts, it feels like finding “the one” is a distant dream. Your friends have succeeded, but you feel stuck and disconnected from their advice to “put yourself out there” or that “you’ll find it when you stop looking”.
Maybe you've started seeing someone, and the uncertainty kicks in. Do they really like you? Are you the right match? You're playing detective, searching for signs that you’re on the same page. But there's this fear that maybe they're not the one, and worse, maybe there won't be anyone else. Loneliness and abandonment become constant worries, holding you back from the relationship you want.
Enter dating therapy – your secret weapon in navigating the tricky world of relationships.
At Madison Square Psychotherapy, through years of working with clients who have experienced a variety of different struggles in the realm of dating and romantic relationships, we’ve found the keys to navigating your love life with confidence and ease. In the early stages of dating, this involves managing expectations, being authentic, and setting boundaries. For single clients, we focus on creating a sense of wholeness independent of a romantic relationship. In the aftermath of a breakup, grief work helps uncover and cope with emotions, providing closure and building confidence for future relationships. It's all about unraveling the complexities of dating and relationships, empowering you to find the love you're looking for. Give it a shot – your path to lasting love might just be a therapy session away.
Dating therapy is a special type of therapy that focuses on addressing challenges and improving communication within romantic relationships. It differs from traditional therapy in its specific focus on dating dynamics, navigating the different stages of relationships, managing expectations, communicating effectively, and addressing issues unique to dating in a fast-paced city like New York.
A therapeutic safe space can help you explore and process the vulnerability, insecurity, and fear so commonly brought up in dating. If you find recurring issues in your romantic relationships and struggle to address them, therapy can be the step that helps get you unstuck and moving in the direction of the love that you crave.
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What is Therapy for Dating & Relationships?
imagine if you…
Felt confident, calm, and secure
When starting dating and relationship therapy, we’ll focus on helping you to feel safe and secure in yourself, knowing that whatever happens, you will be okay. You’ll develop tools and strategies needed to calm your nervous system, build your confidence, and feel grounded in who you are – with and without a partner.
Could effectively set boundaries and communicate your needs
You’ll work with your therapist to identify and accept what your deepest needs and values are when it comes to dating. With this awareness, you will learn to identify more compatible partners and have the difficult conversations needed to ensure your needs are being met.
Found genuine, lasting connection
We can only meet others as deeply as we’ve met ourselves. Our goal is for you to emerge with a new sense of love and compassion for yourself – that you can then go share with a partner from a place of wholeness and abundance, rather than scarcity and lack.
You should know:
Healthy relationships are possible.
You don’t have to figure out all of the answers on your own - and it’s a lot easier to have support on your journey. Let’s work together to help you develop skills and feel confident in your relationship journey.
4 of the best dating & relationships therapists in NYC
Madeleine Phelan, LMSW
Madeleine Phelan, LMSW, is a therapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy, providing relationship & dating therapy in New York City. With a focus on relational therapy, Madeleine helps clients navigate the obstacles of dating and relationships by fostering self-awareness and resilience.
Credentials: Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW)
License number: 122113/New York
Education: NYU, Masters in Social Work
Specialty area(s): Depression, Dating & Relationships, Trauma
2. Madelyn Lunder, LMSW
Madelyn Lunder, LMSW, is a therapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy, providing therapy for relationship and dating struggles. Madelyn helps clients develop deeper understanding on underlying relational patterns and dynamics.
Credentials: Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW)
License number: 124671/New York
Education: NYU, Masters in Social Work
Specialty area(s): Dating & Relationships, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma
3. Kristin Anderson, LCSW
Kristin Anderson, founder of Madison Square Psychotherapy, specializes in psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral techniques. With a tailored approach, Kristin helps clients develop greater insight, self-compassion, and coping skills for sustained growth.
Credentials: Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
License number: 090561/New York
Education: Columbia University, Masters in Social Work
Specialty area(s): Trauma, Anxiety, Women’s Issues
4. Janel Coleman, LMSW
Janel Coleman, LMSW, is a therapist at Madison Square Psychotherapy, practicing in person in New York City. Specializing in mindfulness-based approaches, Janel supports clients by cultivating self-compassion and emotional regulation.
Credentials: Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW)
License number: 119164-01/New York
Education: Washington University at St. Louis, Masters in Social Work
Specialty area(s): Depression, Anxiety, Mindfulness-based therapy, Maternal and Women’s Mental Health
Why choose Madison Square Therapy for Dating and Relationships in New York City
Located in the heart of New York, Madison Square Psychotherapy is dedicated to offering personalized care and an inviting space for those in search of therapy for dating and relationship issues in New York City. We’re committed to providing a supportive environment for you to explore your own experiences and patterns that come up in relationships. Here are some of the top reasons why we're a strong choice for those seeking post-traumatic stress disorder therapy in the heart of New York City:
faqs
Common questions about therapy relationships & dating
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Dating therapy provides a supportive environment for individuals to explore their relationship patterns, gain insight into their relationship goals and values, and develop the skills needed to navigate the complexities of dating in a bustling city like New York. Therapists can offer guidance on managing anxiety, setting boundaries, having difficult conversations, and fostering genuine connections.
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Dating therapy is beneficial for individuals at all stages of their romantic journey, including those who are single and seeking meaningful connections. Therapists can work with single clients to explore their dating goals, address any barriers to finding love, and cultivate a sense of self-worth and fulfillment independent of a romantic partner. Dating therapy can also help when processing a breakup or adjusting to a new relationship stage.
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You may benefit from dating therapy if you find yourself struggling with recurring issues in your romantic relationships, feeling overwhelmed by the dating process, experiencing anxiety or insecurity in your dating life, or seeking guidance from friends and family on the complexities of modern dating situations.
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When seeking a dating therapist in New York City, it's essential to look for licensed mental health professionals with experience and training in dating and relationship therapy. You can search online directories, read therapist profiles, and consider factors such as specialization, approach, and compatibility. Additionally, seeking recommendations from trusted friends, family members, or healthcare providers can help you find a therapist who meets your needs.
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The duration of dating therapy varies depending on individual needs and goals. Some individuals may benefit from short-term therapy focused on addressing specific issues or challenges, while others may engage in longer-term therapy to explore deeper relational patterns and personal growth. Your therapist will work with you to develop a treatment plan tailored to your unique circumstances and progress.
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Yes, dating therapy is confidential, and therapists are bound by ethical and legal obligations to protect client privacy. Discussions and information shared in therapy sessions are kept confidential unless there are legal exceptions, such as situations involving imminent risk of harm to oneself or others. Your therapist will explain the limits of confidentiality and address any concerns you may have about privacy during your sessions.
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